Selena Gomez on past love and being single for five years
Selena Gomez reflects on past relationships, including Justin Bieber: ‘That’s why I was alone for five years’
Hollywood singer and actor Selena Gomez recently spoke about her past relationships, including her time with Justin Bieber. In a heartfelt conversation, she shared why she chose to be alone for five years and how her current relationship with music producer Benny Blanco has helped her grow.
Looking back on her past
Selena Gomez has always been in the public eye, and her relationships have often been a topic of discussion. Recently, she appeared on the On Purpose with Jay Shetty podcast alongside her fiancé Benny Blanco, where she reflected on the challenges of her past relationships. One of the most talked-about aspects of her romantic history has been her relationship with Justin Bieber.
Although Gomez and Bieber have not openly spoken about each other in recent years, their past together still holds significance for many fans. During the interview, Gomez admitted that she made mistakes in her past relationships, including with Bieber. She described how she used to be reactive in difficult situations, which led her to take a step back from dating for five years.
“I’ve been guilty, though, to start. I think for me, I necessarily felt like in other situations of mine I was very reactive. I think that’s why I was alone for five years because I really needed to collect myself,” Gomez shared. Her words gave fans an insight into her emotional journey and the lessons she has learned from her past.
During her time alone, Gomez focused on healing, growing, and understanding herself better. She realized that before entering another relationship, she needed to be emotionally ready and in a healthier mindset.
While Gomez looked back on her past, she also spoke about how much she has changed over the years. Now engaged to Benny Blanco, she acknowledges how different her approach to relationships has become.
She explained that if she had met Blanco ten years ago, she wouldn’t have been able to be with him in the same way. “I think in the past, that’s why I said to him all the time 10 years ago it’s not that I wouldn't have wanted to be with you, I just wouldn’t have been in the right headspace, and I don’t think you deserved what I had gone through before,” she said.
Gomez emphasized how important emotional maturity has been for her. She recognizes that the struggles she went through in her past relationships helped her grow into the person she is today. Now, she is in a relationship where she feels understood and appreciated.
One of the things she values most about Blanco is his patience. She admitted that in the past, she struggled with conflict in relationships. However, with Blanco, things feel different. He helps her stay calm and approach difficult situations with a clear mind.
“I’ve learned a lot of lessons and I’ve made mistakes, and I just want this to be right,” she said. She described how Blanco’s support has allowed her to express herself more freely without fear of conflict.
Gomez also spoke about how her new relationship feels more balanced. She appreciates that Blanco understands her emotions and makes things easier for her. “I think girls can equally want to be right. For me, it was really difficult in the past, and he's made it unbelievably easy so that if I even get to the point where I’m so frustrated, he's very quick to understand,” she explained.
Her reflections show how much she has grown emotionally. She has learned to manage her emotions better and approach love with a new perspective.
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Moving forward with confidence
Gomez’s openness about her past struggles and how she has changed highlights her journey toward self-awareness and emotional strength. She admitted that she used to react impulsively, but Blanco’s calm nature has helped her find a new way to handle challenges.
With her fiancé by her side and her past behind her, Gomez is now in a place where she can fully embrace love. She has taken the time to heal, learn, and grow, and she now feels ready to move forward with confidence. Her story is a reminder that personal growth is a journey, and sometimes, stepping back to focus on oneself is the best way to move forward.
